Game

Very group have their particular jokes, their own code language which can’t be decoded by others.  Same was with our group in Engineering. One of the specialities of our Group was whenever we use to have bakar we take Game of each other. Every day, kisina  kisika game bajna jaruri tha. Still whenever we guys use to hang around we again start revitalizing the same jokes and games we use to take. These are some of our Game, which sounds funny for us but these are the moments which we all miss a lot.

Game 1: Wadaskar ka Calci

Prof Ayengar’s class was going on, no one was giving damn to him at least we people. We were having fun at our last benches. Himanshu, after coming back from trip, use to get switched into Mode 0, which make him more funny and idiotic. He was making fun of PORN (Prince of Ram Nagar) Ravi. He was making Ravi to obey him otherwise he would throw his Calculator on floor. Ravi cunningly exchanged his calci with Himanshu’s. Ravi was acting, I mean over-acting, “Please bro don’t throw my calci, I have only one” But at last Himashu threw his calci, and started giving his evergreen mute laugh. Every one of us knew that what was happening and we all started laughing; Himanshu thought that we all are laughing on Ravi. Ultimately Himanshu comes to knew ki uska Game Bajj gaya . When truth was revealed, he got annoyed and went out of the class; as usual he said M word to everyone. But on next day, he was normal and was giving his usual mute laugh : P

Game 2:  Imran Roya !!!

Imran seems to be biggest kamina of our group became big time Bakra in Hyderabad. I was suffering from high fever and he was supposed to meet me at my room. But at that time, he went out with class girls. At night, he called Ankush to enquire about my health but Ankush make him emotional “Karan was having high fever and was really expecting you, but you were busy with girls……Chalta Dost I can understand girls always make a guy away from his friends it’s obviou…it happens…. priority of people changes with time….but we are with you”. Imran started crying on phone that I don’t mean that…. Karan is best friend of mine and I can’t forget you guys in sake of any girl. All this conversation was kept on loud-speaker and everyone (Sandy, Ankush, Gaurav, Bangde) was giggling. Poor Imran really cried. Then we disclose it he again started crying “M######  aisa bhi koi game lete kya??”  It was one of the best Games. Still that conversation is saved in my mobile…but it was quite shocking for everyone to see Imran crying.

Game 3: What Piyush ???

“What Piyush??” the words he hear the most in his college life and hates the most. It was so famous that for election we use to announce “Be…what piyush ko hi vote deneka !!” These holy words were invented in Lalsare’s tution. Lalsare always crack poor jokes and was expecting every one of us to laugh on it. His jokes are still considered as most pathetic joke of Engg. For Example: “Jab bhi main term G1 use karta hu….tab hostel ke bacho ke muh me paani aajata hai….qki G1 usko hamesha unko Jewan sunai deta hai…”Piyush to make good impression on Sir use to seat first and laugh on his jokes. He was only person in the class who use to enjoy his fU%$ng jokes. So whenever Lalsare use to crack joke we haul What Piyushhhh !!! Indirectly, we use to make fun of Sir by saying Piyush’s name. But this didn’t stop there we started repeating it everywhere. Whenever he gives answer in class or whenever he talks with any girl or when he enters the class, we never miss the chance to haul. Saga still continues and we hope his wife will also say one day What Piyush??

Game 4:  Happy Pola, Sir !!! :D

This game didn’t happen to us, but we Kamineys made our Tution Sir big time Bakra on our favourite festival POLA.  Actually I was not aware of Gaurav’s , Nikhil and Tajane Sir’s planning. These guys told me “Today is ##### Sir’s Bday, we will bring cake and waste whole class time on it.” I went to Aarti’s Bakery and bought cheapest cake for him. In Class, we surprised Sir and he was also shocked that how come these guys are celebrating on un-occasional day. We told him that our seniors told us that it was his Birthday. Poor guy called all his family to celebrate his so-called birthday. He cut the cake; we also applied cream of cake on his face and even taken the video clip. Sir was too happy that he promised us to give party on next day. But it didn’t happen. Next he realized that kal uska game baja diya potone. He called Manas to enquire the whole issue. Sir’s face was completely distorted; he was really ashamed of himself by becoming a Bakra. He was sure that I was only behind this drama but I wasn’t. Now I remember Pola not as festival, but because of this incident.

*there are many incident which I wanna write but I don’t wanna make it public such as Bangde ka Darad, Piyush print-out, Guntewar Jam Janewala hai, Ravi ka Hisab, Shukla humba, Sandy ki Amitabh wali entry, Ankush ko gym janna hai, etc……but  all were the bestest moments*

Passion in Long-distance Relationship

                                 Mobile Blinked. Her msg arrived. “m done wid dinnerJ.” Nitin smiled, he knows this is an indication that she is free to talk, and he talked with her for hours. Nitin use to work hard for whole day and then talk with his girlfriend, Jyoti, was giving him worth of living. It was regular schedule for him, waiting for night to talk with her.  Both of them were working in IT Company but were 1000 miles away from each other.

                                 In this mobile-age, they were emotionally connected to each other by means of technology. SMS, Skype and facebook were the means of sharing between them. Earlier Nitin was casual about his relationship. He always aimed to be Software Engineer, but this long-distance was making him more deep and passionate about her. This regular calls and msgs was making him to think of her frequently. This thinking was giving him an extra perspective on what is it he loved about her and why she is important in his life. Jyoti wants to stay as a couple and her words were the only one tool that was connecting him. Now, they approach each other more quickly than they were around each other. They have known each other from long and it’s the time to be alone again. Both of them were getting a feel of what life is like without special person.  Nitin never gives attention to any of his office-girls as he considered Jyoti as other side of his world. The couple, who use to fight a lot, learned to trust each other as it was only option left for them. While working, Jyoti was finding her own identity and was becoming more independent.  She realized worth of other thing and started focusing on them. Nevertheless, their priorities were changing.  Nitin was realizing value of Jyoti in his life while Jyoti was realizing worth of her career which she always dreamed about.

            Finally, the frustration of Nitin reached at his peak and he resigned from his job. He came to same city of Jyoti.  Jyoti was not pleased with his decision; she didn’t want Nitin to leave his job for sake of her.  Nitin anyhow got job in small company which was not worth for his career. However, he was happy in an assessment that he was with his love. He was fulfilling all his expectations which he dreamed to be with her. Meanwhile, Jyoti got an opportunity to work on-field in Germany.  When she discussed it with Nitin, he got disappointed as she even thought to discuss it. When Nitin opposed her to go, she yelled “I never asked you to leave your Job for me, if I m getting a golden opportunity to work on-field you are becoming a hurdle for my successful future.” Nitin was deeply hurt but Jyoti didn’t concern it much and left to Germany. She thought Nitin is emotionally entrapped and will later understand the practicality of life. She thought that she will marry Nitin whenever she will be back in India.

      She got busy in Germany and was not able to restructure her relation with Nitin. One day, she got Nitin’s mail . It consists of photos of his marriage. She was shocked seeing all those photographs of Nitin and his wife. She called him to know the reason behind this but he didn’t answer the call. Next day she got the mail from Nitin, “I don’t want to miss the golden opportunity to marry the girl who wants to spend her whole life with me.”

The Price of love: EGO

Lately, I saw one of my favourite movie, RHTDM. There’s one scene in that movie where HERO eats chicken for getting HEROINE besides being a Brahmin. He sacrifices his rituals for sake of his love, but he didn’t mind because he was in Ideal state. You can’t define ideal state but in this state, we think that Love chooses us or we just magically fall in love.  We try our level best to keep everything perfect as we want to make it for long. We sort out matter and adjust with each other. Even though, we are aware of the fact that we are not perfect for each other but for making it perfect we try to bring change in our attitude. In this ideal state, sacrifices will make him/her happier and she/he considers love as act of giving. 

             We sacrifice our ego in many cases because we want other person to be in our life. Every person in this world needs an attention, they need to feel special. Many times, this ego made us happier. In men’s case it plays the major role. As we know, men are from Mars and they love to win & conquer.  They start to introduce their love-mate as, “Hey, meet my girlfriend Avantika.”If we observe the sentence, he used ‘my’ first, then his relationship with that girl i.e. ‘girlfriend’ and the end he uttered her name. By adding word MY they add their intimacy for their love-mate, which later turn into an ego. Men are tough but ironic thing is that our ego is as fragile as balloon reason behind this is a fear. Every man in relationship is terrified that in the end, he will amount to nothing. Deep-down inside he is afraid that it is all going to go away and he’s going to remain  nothing ,but  a zero. In some cases we fall into relationship or continue it in sake of satisfying our ego. As the load of ego increases, the ship of the relationship starts sinking. Our ego start getting hurt when she stops texting you, calling you back and start talking to that person whom you dislike. You start calculating all your past sacrifices and make him/her realise your worth in their life. This happens in state of compromise where idealism is lost.

      A stage comes that you are in relationship only because of him, her & his/her ego.  You don’t want others to know that you lose your girlfriend/boyfriend. When this stage arrives you should be aware that what matter in the end. Though Ego is your enemy but it’s always with you. If you want relationship you have to sacrifice your ego. Then it’s your choice what matter you more ‘Ego or Relationship?’.

               In Engg, we were taught a term called threshold, which means minimum amounts of unit required to start the process. If the voltage or frequency goes below this threshold amount there is no effect or process end. In relationship also we forget this threshold amount, but in the end the value of this threshold frequency increases which ultimately spoils your relationship. It will be better we should not go beyond threshold as it will cause adverse effect in your relationship in future. Desire in all level is legitimate and these desires are evolved from love, which need to be satisfied. If your love can find satisfaction in all level then there is no need of ego.