Mardaangi

WTF!! Welcome to facebook and you will know Manhood is totally lost. Guys are using their Fb status as tissue paper crying and talking about relationship and love. I look around and it seems to me that society is turning men into a bunch of feminine boys like SRK. We constantly talk about our feelings or putting women on a stand. The growing feminism in men even becomes more obvious when you see the fashion and personal grooming trends that many men are going - skinny jeans, full body wax, excessive jewellery , pink clothing – it makes them look more feminine that a college girl. It is a sad day in the history of men when trying to be a gentleman just for pleasing society and girls.

My opinion, men are becoming less manly because women are telling us what we want. But, only Men can produce Manliness. While you can be genetically male, manliness is something that is learned, earned, and proved behaviour. Many women have stated that "I want a man who is convicted in his beliefs, and who will stand up for them no matter what". And yet it seems to me that the only men who so many women reward for their conviction are those men whose beliefs fall in line with this agreement!  I remember when you could call facts they way they were without worrying about being called a sexist, racist, or being sued. Men dressed, talked, ate, drank, and fought like men… and they did it with pride. Now there are men who are apologizing to the world because we are doing nothing more than being a man. I am just wondering if the traditional definition of manliness can still be applied to the majority of men today. Have we abandoned Sean Connery, Van Diesel, Pierce Brosnan, and Salman Khan for Robert Pattinson, Ashton Kutcher and Imran Khan? 

If this is true, who's to blame? Social Cultural environment plays an important role. From childhood, we are asked to respect women, that’s true it should be but from heart, why to pretend. We get bored from girlfriend’s family history and their relative stories, their cousin’s love saga. But we have to bear, we hate their best friends but have to swallow their text messages and listen to their love life complaints. We are in fear of getting single again, however no relationship last on fear.  Facebook is also killing manhood, when a guy updates devdas kind of status, it’s appreciated. However, Men have learned throughout their life that if they defer most of their decisions to women, they have to be happy. Thinking from pessimist side, being a man is a BURDEN, life is hard for them. A man is more responsible, leading, in control and honest towards his duty. He’s always a leader. His courage and bravery are unquestionable throughout the history. He enjoys the company of others and is genuinely interested living with people. A man is not afraid of death; he understands that life is a continual process of dying. He thinks two steps ahead and is always planning for his family and himself. Most important, a man NEVER disrespects a woman, and does not tolerate other men that do so. He will fight to the bloody death to protect and defend his woman. That’s the reason women are attracted to him, because he can handle this burden.

There are a great many doors open; but a door must be of a man's size or it is not meant for him. So, why to change yourself in sake of others likability. Quit acting like a girly boy. Manhood is opportunity for achievement, now it’s considering trait of bad guys. If it’s bad so live with it, and then also girls will like you. Survey says that women don’t like nice guys, because they don’t have spine and low self esteem. So don’t lose yourself. The real man believes that his honor is dearer than his life. Be a man,yaar.

I also lack in many qualities of being a well defined Man, but it should be aspiring personality of every guy. God Bless Mardaangi.!!!

...what we have thought

We are in the era where the last frontier is not space, it’s the mind. Our mind is restless; it’s continuously works even while sleeping it works in name of dreams. I wasted lots of my class hours staring at wall and thinking. The world was less for my thoughts. But, day by day I started realising all what I’m, is the result what I have thought. 

There’s a Concept or belief which I mostly believe called Law of Attraction, which have worked a lot on me. I never thought in my life that I’ll turn Engineer and MBA; but was always thinking what kind of life I want to live. In schooling, I always thought to learn some practical and technical things which made me to turn an Engineer. Other things which I thought were in college I’ll form a Gang, roaming whole city in Bikes, become popular and many things. My adorability toward Corporate Styling and Life brought me to do MBA in Alliance University, Bangalore. I have experienced or achieved most of things; things I missed may be because I was not inclined toward it. From Engineering and still in MBA, I always complain that there’s no girl in our group. Because our priority was more on hanging around with each other at any time without any kind of censorship in our mouth; that atmosphere may be was not suitable for any girl.  Thus I experienced it’s one more nature, if you complaining, what it is then it turns worse. That’s why we are still struggling ;)

The biggest question to anyone is what they want. Everyone wants Happiness, health and wealth. We are Michelangelo of our thoughts. In childhood, Hilter was asked to draw the map of Germany and he draws the map of world.  Everyone is transmitting one or the other thoughts to the world, depending on their needs. Thoughts have their intensity, finally thoughts become the things. There is an infinite variety of thought available to the mind. However, thinking alone, like the lines of a blueprint on paper, cannot build anything. Many successful people like Gandhi, Steve Job know how to choose thoughts and beliefs that will create the things that they think they want.

The way we choose our thoughts depends upon the feeling depending upon our Emotional Guidance System. Positive Emotion comes from Love, Joy and Appreciation, while negative comes from guilt, blame, shame and revenge. Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve. If you’re predominantly thinking oriented in thinking about life in a positive direction, you are creating positive experience for your life. Hence it’s necessary to choose the thoughts that will lead to true inner peace, health, prosperity, personal effectiveness and happiness. If you’re feeling low change your Vantage point, because it will trouble you more. Whatever you’re feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process. What you think what you feel and what manifest is always a match.

“All what we are, is the result what we have thought.”-Buddha