Last Time When we Met  

      Sometimes when you lose but it helps you to win…this loss makes you win in Future. It makes you to learn. Great moments come in your Life not because what you do but sometimes what happens to you. This Story relates the above thought.

      Universe is always in the motion; every plan of universe is also in motion. You even not take any effort and action happens to you. Last winter, I was pestered by my mom to attend a marriage. I always hate to do so, because I have to shave, neatly dressed and always have to keep smile on my face.  Most terrifying thing is you have to give answer to the most annoying question with a smile-     “ Engg ke baad kya socha hai ???“,”Tumhara Placement hua kya ????“ all crap.

    When you are getting bored in Marriage first thing you will do is to find a person whom you can chat else you have to stick with your Mom.  As expected, I can’t find anyone so I was continuously Messaging. Suddenly someone called me and I turned back. As I see her my heart started pounding I was blank for a moment .She was the girl whom I dated in my school days, my first girlfriend.

     After coming back to home, she was only thing in my Mind. Though we had a chat but it was not enough for me. Before going to sleep I was thinking of her even I can’t sleep because I can’t stop thinking of her.  The reason was pretty simple ‘She was looking really Beautiful’ and I am sure everyone in the party should have noticed her, may be more than Bride. During schooling, her face was only thing you find was beautiful but many things on her were complimenting her now. How Foolish I was that I broke up with her. I was back in my School Days. I was getting all the glimpse of that period when I first saw her, when my friend Manish introduced to her, when we were on my first Date, when I proposed her……in short I want her Back.

     Next Morning, like teenage days, I called Manish to find out most important Question “Is she Single??” Thank God she was not seeing any guy at that time. Anyhow I got her Mobile No. From last 6years I was completely disconnected from her, even she was not in Orkut or Facebook. So for being formal, I dropped the message on her mob “U still luk beautiful even more den b4 …. Nic to see u again J “. I was waiting for her reply and was even nervous. She messaged me at night 10pm. “beautiful  Lol…thnx .” I was full of excitement that I called her as soon I got her message.  Her dialler-tone was a love song Rehna Tu of  delhi 6. She answered very sweetly, she also told me you look Handsome and we started all the old stuff. When I ended the call I found out we talked more than a hour.

These 7 years changed me a lot. Weird thing was I started again dating the girl which I was dating 7 years back. Many things changed our language, our hairstyle, our lifestyle, our qualification. Everything was changed but the ugly cruel truth that fainted us apart was same. We never discussed the reason why we broke up. Day-by-day we were coming close to each other and also to that truth.

 The story continues in next post……..

The Wave of New Relationship

As per the research "Lifelong Love is possible" in human being but i think contradictory to this.  When we enter into Relationship we start looking our new Partner …….as our soul mate, true love,  bla bla bla…at that time you are full with passion and excitement.  But after 1 year, you will stop thinking this crab. Big thing is that your perception for her changes……it can be her appearance, habit, lifestyle, dressing…… But on serious note ,The longer you have been in a relationship  while breaking up the more frightening it may sound.

A new girlfriend may be the last thing you need. Maybe just a breakup, but, in any case, she’s gone. Still you cannot understand that after being in a relationship that has lasted for a year or more, the first or second woman you meet after the breakup you think it’s the perfect match for you.

May be the smell of your ex’s perfume is still lingering in the air. You may fantasize about having choices again.  As soon as you petty your situation as a “single” you want to get fixed with anyone you know maybe your class-mate, neighbor, co-worker who is also newly single and to whom you never paid attention.

When a relationship ends, both men and women often say that they are going to be very cautious about their next one. May be that guy is strongly connected with his friends, but when your girlfriend left you, we prefer to jump into a new relationship in order to fill-in the gap.

Most importantly, the pain can help you avoid making similar mistakes in the future. Unfortunately, people don’t really learn very well from their mistakes in relationships. For example, the chances of breaking up increases in your new relationship. The wave of new relationship is because the waves never stay close they go back,they have to......

But friends, new relationship should not be because of stressfulness but should be because of feelings.

 A decision made under stress may not  be a wise decision.