DEcayed
Its 2010,one more decade is going to be finished within a month. Many things happened in this TEN years.....9/11 to 26/11....NDA to UPA.....Vajpayee to Manmohan aka Sonia Gandhi.....Defence Scam to 2G Scam.....world around you is Totally Changed. Inspite of Integration we are doing Derivation. Things which were available at paise’s are now available in hundred’s. Individualism or in marketing terms Niche marketing is popular now a Days….Congress split into NCP…..Shiv Sena split into MNS…..Self-centred and Egoism are the two easily incorporated words in our Life.
Even this 10 years has changed my Identity…… I was Hindu…..den Brahmin…..den our education system told me I m Open Category……now bcoz of Raj Thakarey I am a ‘Bhaiya’now. Have you ever thought that the words like missed call, SMS, Facebook, poke, Move-on ,Breakup, etc can play important role in your life. One of the biggest MUJREEM is English Language…..in Hindi/Marathi ‘Love’ means Pyaar/Prem but English has infatuation, Obsession, crush , Affection, Adoration, bla bla bla……..all this words are just confusing our Feeling.
During 2000, ‘Love’ was just staring at a girl you like a lot and to observe her. Gathering her information about her landline no (so to give blank call and listen to her HELLO)……her fav colour (so to dress in that colour)……her fav Actor (so to look like that hero)…..fav song (to give her blank call & make her hear that song) and most important her address (to accelerate and make sound by bike opp to her house).
2003came …..Mobile Revolution……at that time everyone thought this will make you love closer……but we dint knew this thing will become the biggest reason 2 make us apart.
How free were you before Mobile….use to play cricket upto 7pm….roam after tution/school…..go to yours friend…..come back at home at any time u want ……total Bindass…..Mobile give us new curiosity to get her number…because texting was best way to approach a girl. It has brought paradigm shift in your love life. Now, there’s no need to hide your Cordless Phone….change the cell of ID caller…..no need to give identification blank Call. Ab bass ek msg. “Call u at 1am”. Now it is only a Loss, Budget of pocket money increases and top of it Sleepless nights came as Combo Pack. New emotional jargons were introduce ‘sd tc gn gm ge luv u’ in your Life. Now girl friend’s name was apparently changing in to a boys name and was visible in “dialled calls received calls inbox sent and to messs wid it at the end was more dangerous “miss” call”. Miss calls wud make your memory as well as your mobile’s memory go low n your battery down with “ where r u?,busy ho kya??, Atleast leave a msg…..call me sooon ?” & result was sent msgs full with “ I was with my friends yaar ….., sorry L ab maan bhi jao…..blah blah blah ..” Inshort your privacy is gone and your life is just to say your’s …….else you live as she wants in Dominant status.
ERA of Social networking began pics uploads…. Poking others…. Seeing your school mate again in new hair style and beard……seeing your old crush pics……relationship Status. Now scrap, wall post, comments were added to our life’s …...A foolish comment can spoil many hours on your phones and may be days also. Now I can really feel those words “Science a Boom as well as a Curse”
Within this year not even technology has changed our perception also changed .Idealism was shattered by new word PRACTICALISM .Slangs are considered cool kinda thing….. SEX before marriage was “pagal hain kya??” & now SEX before marriage was “ Ab tak nahi….pagal hai kya???”.Now “Virginity is not a sign of purity but sign of lack of opportunity”. Even some lines that made you happiest like “kya hum dost bann sakta hain” now sounds like hurting a much.
In college we use to bunk classes ….. meet and plan Now we plan to meet. Life has completely changed aim of the life has also changed even the priorities also ..BUT you cannot feel as happy as you were 10 years before .Even dating the hottest chick around you cannot give you that happiness which you would got on acceptance of your first proposal. You can be a MBA , you can be a Doctor but you will always remember your 10th grade marks for each subject
So, Finally that why I feel like this times was not only a decade but also decayed.
Truth is “ CHANGES ARE PERMANENT IN LIFE” but somethings wont change Your MOMS love towards you ,Their trust on you and Still it doesn’t matter how u changed be not so good…,you turned fatty or skiny …. For your PARENTS you are the best looking person on earth…….
This was my attempt to think what was this ten years to me which cannot be said in few words but felt in few of them frankly speaking could not find the best topic to write my new blog “this was the first that came in to my mind n the last also” you had it from my side now many of u may agree few of u may not but still a pure sure and sarcastic attempt by me …….THANX FOR READING…
